How to start a great conversation with a Girl .....

The plunge into the icy Atlantic is scary. It’s bone freezing cold and you wonder if you can survive. Even the charming  Jack  couldn't do much as he swam in the Atlantic when Titanic sank. What chances do you have? Plenty.

First of all, you’re not in the Atlantic. That’s a good start for you. Making the move to talk to a girl can seem like a very daunting task. This is a very natural step that is as unique as you can be. You could do just about anything here, walk up to this person, even if she is with her posse of giggling girls, who already know why you’re approaching them, or you could step in closer and wait for the moment when she’s alone (which usually never happens. How wicked, isn't it?).

Here, again, your words don’t really matter, it’s all mostly in your tone and your composure, and that wickedly sweet smile of yours! Even if the damsel is proud and pretends like she isn't interested in knowing you, you can still go on with your words, adding humor and a line that makes her understand that you can’t imagine leaving the place without knowing her, and spending a few moments to get to know her better. Be calm, however much you feel the situation slipping away from you. If you want to pester her to talk to you, even if she declines it, do so deftly coating your words with a lot of charm and elegance.

If you've always dreamt of swimming across the English Channel, you know the first thing you have to do is learn to swim. It takes time, but you know there isn't much you can do but master the art of swimming one baby step at a time. The same with a girl , you get smoother each time you make your move.

If you can pull it off at the first try, that’s just perfect. Or beginner’s luck! If you’re not very confident, practice it a few times in different situations, when you’re alone and bored. It definitely helps you become that much more smoother. If it doesn't work in any rare circumstance… well, don’t tuck tail and run under the bed. Remember that even the best moves can go wrong. That shouldn't really stop you from approaching anyone else. Remember, approaching a girl you admire is wonderful, and it’s always a great feeling if you can pull it off your way.

Learn from your mistakes, and very soon, you would be able to approach just about any girl without a single sweat bead on your brow. If you are worried about the others who just watch and wait for you to mess up, just to get their laughs – ignore them.